FAQ About Fetish Etiquette
1. Respect and polite at All Times:
Proper etiquette for a fetish party is based on respect. If you are interested in something going on feel free to watch, that’s the point of public play scenes. However, don’t crowd or interrupt anything going on. If you would like to play, wait until the scene is finished and then approach. Introduce yourself and say what is on your mind.
Don’t interrupt people or couples who are engaging in play. Unless it is an interactive stage show, many individuals might take offense to an interruption of any kind, whether it is questions, comments, or vulgar statements regarding the type of play taking place. Simply wait until their “scene” is over before approaching. A public scene is an invitation to watch, not to join in or volunteer. Also, it is wise to ask the Dominant for permission to speak with the submissive in order to establish possible “ownership” or lack thereof. Respect the space the event is held in, and definitely respect all the guests.
2. Stay in Your Lane:
A collared submissive should not be approached to play under any circumstances. More often than not, this means that they are in attendance with their Owner. If a collared submissive approaches you, it is wise to ask if they are owned. They may just be wearing a collar in advance preparation for a scene they desire to occur with a Dominant they meet on premises, or even as a fashion statement. In any event, it is always wise to be sure.
3. Ask Before You Touch:
Never use someone’s property without asking permission first! Although a fetish event is a public gathering for like-minded individuals, that doesn’t mean we all like to share. This applies to fetish toys & equipment (floggers, ropes, cuffs, paddles, blindfolds, etc.) as well as people (submissives, slaves, etc.). A powerful Dominant may be giving an OTK (over the knee) spanking to a lovely submissive at the fetish event you are attending. That does not give anyone the right to also spank this person once their scene is over. You must always ask permission. It also doesn’t hurt to get to know someone before engaging in play. Trust is something that is established over time. Be courteous as well. No means no, and if someone tells you no, there’s no reason to be rude about it.
4. Be Aware of Your Surroundings:
Be mindful of the play going on around you. When a person is flogging someone, they are focused on what they are doing and having someone encroaching on their back swing can really distract them. Be mindful of what is going on around you or you could catch a paddle across your face!
5. Fetish Event Dress Code:
When attending a Fetish Event or S&M Play Party, it helps if you dress in play-appropriate attire. Jeans and sneakers are usually unacceptable. If you don’t have fetish clothing (leather, rubber, latex, lace, PVC, vinyl, stilettos, thigh-highs, lingerie, corsets, theme attire: nurse/nun/school teacher), you can, at the very least, dress nicely and sexy in all black. But, I have to admit, the more fetish and S&M themed clothing being worn at an event, the better the energy in the room!
6. Photography Rules:
The single most important rule of photography at a fetish event is to always be conscious of what is in your background & always ask before you take a picture.
Can I bring a camera to take pictures? Yes you can bring a small camera or a phone camera, but only use it to take pictures of stage performances or of your group. Large camera rigs are limited to our event staff. Please be observant of the "Photography Allowed" or "No Photography Allowed" signs during the scenes that take place on the public play dungeon equipment.
Do you still have questions?
CALL 87-SEXY-FUNN
1. Respect and polite at All Times:
Proper etiquette for a fetish party is based on respect. If you are interested in something going on feel free to watch, that’s the point of public play scenes. However, don’t crowd or interrupt anything going on. If you would like to play, wait until the scene is finished and then approach. Introduce yourself and say what is on your mind.
Don’t interrupt people or couples who are engaging in play. Unless it is an interactive stage show, many individuals might take offense to an interruption of any kind, whether it is questions, comments, or vulgar statements regarding the type of play taking place. Simply wait until their “scene” is over before approaching. A public scene is an invitation to watch, not to join in or volunteer. Also, it is wise to ask the Dominant for permission to speak with the submissive in order to establish possible “ownership” or lack thereof. Respect the space the event is held in, and definitely respect all the guests.
2. Stay in Your Lane:
A collared submissive should not be approached to play under any circumstances. More often than not, this means that they are in attendance with their Owner. If a collared submissive approaches you, it is wise to ask if they are owned. They may just be wearing a collar in advance preparation for a scene they desire to occur with a Dominant they meet on premises, or even as a fashion statement. In any event, it is always wise to be sure.
3. Ask Before You Touch:
Never use someone’s property without asking permission first! Although a fetish event is a public gathering for like-minded individuals, that doesn’t mean we all like to share. This applies to fetish toys & equipment (floggers, ropes, cuffs, paddles, blindfolds, etc.) as well as people (submissives, slaves, etc.). A powerful Dominant may be giving an OTK (over the knee) spanking to a lovely submissive at the fetish event you are attending. That does not give anyone the right to also spank this person once their scene is over. You must always ask permission. It also doesn’t hurt to get to know someone before engaging in play. Trust is something that is established over time. Be courteous as well. No means no, and if someone tells you no, there’s no reason to be rude about it.
4. Be Aware of Your Surroundings:
Be mindful of the play going on around you. When a person is flogging someone, they are focused on what they are doing and having someone encroaching on their back swing can really distract them. Be mindful of what is going on around you or you could catch a paddle across your face!
5. Fetish Event Dress Code:
When attending a Fetish Event or S&M Play Party, it helps if you dress in play-appropriate attire. Jeans and sneakers are usually unacceptable. If you don’t have fetish clothing (leather, rubber, latex, lace, PVC, vinyl, stilettos, thigh-highs, lingerie, corsets, theme attire: nurse/nun/school teacher), you can, at the very least, dress nicely and sexy in all black. But, I have to admit, the more fetish and S&M themed clothing being worn at an event, the better the energy in the room!
6. Photography Rules:
The single most important rule of photography at a fetish event is to always be conscious of what is in your background & always ask before you take a picture.
Can I bring a camera to take pictures? Yes you can bring a small camera or a phone camera, but only use it to take pictures of stage performances or of your group. Large camera rigs are limited to our event staff. Please be observant of the "Photography Allowed" or "No Photography Allowed" signs during the scenes that take place on the public play dungeon equipment.
Do you still have questions?
CALL 87-SEXY-FUNN
